Questions for couples

Looking for good questions to ask your partner? Here are more than 70 questions for couples, from easy and fun to deep and a little spicy. They work for a first date night, for couples who have been together for years, and for long road trips.

Take turns: one of you reads a question, the other answers honestly. Then swap. No skipping the hard ones (well, maybe one).

73 ideas below. All of them are cards from Duo, the card game for couples, and you can play them free.

Fun questions to get to know each other

1. What's your comfort food?
2. If you won the lottery tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do?
3. What song do you never get tired of?
4. What superpower would you choose?
5. Which trip left the biggest mark on you?
6. What's your all-time favourite film?
7. What's your biggest guilty pleasure?
8. If you could live in another country, which would it be?
9. What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
10. What habit of yours would no one guess?
11. What's your favourite smell?
12. What's the best advice you've ever received?
13. If you were an animal, which would you be?
14. What's your favourite season? Why?
15. What childhood dream haven't you fulfilled yet?
16. What makes you laugh uncontrollably?
17. What's your biggest quirk?
18. What hidden talent do you have?
19. What's your perfect day, from waking up to going to bed?
20. What are you most proud of?
21. What's your worst habit?
22. What series would you rewatch from the start?
23. What's your silliest fear?
24. What can you never travel without?
25. If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

Deep questions about your relationship

26. What was the first thing you thought when you met your partner?
27. What's your favourite memory of the two of you?
28. When did you realise you liked your partner?
29. What's the best trip you've taken together?
30. What does your partner do that always puts you in a good mood?
31. What's the most romantic thing your partner has ever done for you?
32. What song reminds you of your partner?
33. What do you admire most about your partner?
34. What's the funniest moment you've shared?
35. What small thing does your partner do that you love but have never mentioned?
36. If you could run away together tomorrow, where would you go?
37. How did your first date go - and what went wrong?
38. What tradition would you like to start with your partner?
39. What have you learned from your partner?
40. What time of day do you miss your partner the most?
41. What secret nickname would you give your partner?
42. In what ways are you completely different?
43. When did your partner last surprise you?
44. What's your favourite photo of the two of you?
45. What do you most love doing with your partner on a Sunday?
46. What promise would you like to make to your partner today?
47. What was your biggest argument - and how did it end?
48. What's changed in you since you've been with your partner?
49. What dream would you like to make come true with your partner?
50. Describe your partner in three words.

Spicier confessions (18+)

51. When did you feel the most desire for your partner? Tell it in detail.
52. Which piece of your partner's clothing drives you wild?
53. Share a fantasy you've never said out loud.
54. What's your favourite part of your partner's body? Show why with a kiss.
55. What's the riskiest place you'd like to make love with your partner?
56. Slowly describe your perfect night together to your partner.
57. What does your partner do (sometimes without knowing) that turns you on instantly?
58. Is there something you want to try but have been too shy to ask for? Tonight's the night.
59. What's the best night you've ever had together? What made it so good?
60. Whisper in your partner's ear what you're going to do to them in a little while.
61. What was the first thing you noticed about your partner?
62. What's the hottest memory you have of the two of you?
63. If you could relive one night together, which would it be? Why?
64. What do you wish your partner did to you more often?
65. What's your most sensitive spot - and what happens when someone touches it?
66. What word, whispered in your ear, turns you on instantly?
67. Have you ever had a sex dream about your partner? Tell it.
68. What underwear do you most like seeing on your partner?
69. Slow or rushed? Say which you prefer and describe a time it was like that.
70. What compliment from your partner affected you the most?
71. What have you never dared to ask for in bed?
72. What time of day do you want it most? Why?
73. Name three things about your partner's body that drive you crazy.

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